I have a 28-year-old daughter who’s madly in love with an older man, about 60, who lost his wife to cancer about a year ago.

I keep telling her that the age difference here is important. My daughter is a Christian and I doubt that this man is, even though he’s sympathetic to my daughter’s faith.

I have two questions: what should I tell her about the age difference, and what shall I tell her about preparing for the reality that this might not work out? Because he’s rich and good looking, she’s not the only possibility in his life.

Because of surgery my wife has lost all interest in sexual intimacy, but my desires haven’t changed.

We love each other and divorce is out of the question. But, I don’t want to sin mentally, so what should I do? I am heavily involved in Bible study and the church. What other advice can you give me?